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Weddings are greedy by design. From the tiaras and the bridesmaids’ boots to the label boxes and the candleholders, many every member of a marriage is used just a singular time.
With the normal cost of an American marriage at over $35,000—not including the honeymoon—that’s a lot of income to spend, even on a anticipation day, with thousands spent on décor and clothes alone.
After the event, some brides and grooms take to the internet to try to replenish their expenses, selling what they can on eBay or specialty sites like Bridal Garage Sales and Wedding Recycle, where brides-to-be goblin to find the ideal equipment that compare their Pinterest boards. But even if the equipment match, isn’t it better to see them in the genuine world?
Enter the After we Do sale, a one-day sale where newlyweds can sell all of their marriage leftovers to impending brides and grooms, who then return the following year to sell what they can. It’s next-level recycling for those on a budget, and a lifesaver for people looking for a place to sell an additional bolt of ribbon, ideally good glassware, and all the bridesmaid, groomsman, flower girl, and ringbearer rigging you could presumably need. It’s kind of like a high-end vintage market, only all is like new (and infrequently new), and wedding-specific.
Elizabeth Rairigh, co-founder of the After we Do sale and executive executive of Parkway Place, a full-service catering and events core just outward Toledo, Ohio, says the sale has “a little bit of everything” including centerpieces, glassware, signs and chalkboards, shoes, dresses, and jewelry, full silk flower arrangements and marriage gowns.
The cost of equipment is only dynamic by the seller, Rairigh says, adding that many sellers have a “garage sale mindset” so prices are surprisingly affordable.
“We’re giving newlyweds one place where they can bring their [leftover wedding] things and get absolved of as much as possible,” Rairigh says, observant this way brides can one-stop shop for all the opposite components of their wedding.
When Laurie Limes’ daughter got married in 2015, she purchased new equipment with the idea of reselling them, and sole them at the first After we Do sale in 2016. Limes is “absolutely happy” with the return on her investment, and happy to know someone else is benefiting from those items.
“The whole recycling of the product, and not having to store it,” is also a benefit, she says, as is “being means to do a little additional meaningful you can sell later.” It “made it easier meaningful we could recycle things down the road. The idea is not to fill up a landfill with things from your wedding.”
“The some-more you can do yourself, the better,” says Limes, who went back to the sale to squeeze equipment for her second daughter’s wedding, and plans to return to sell again. “I just consider it’s a good way to repurpose items.”
Kendra Bills, owners at In Bloom Flowers and Gifts, sells vases and glassware her shop competence have rented out at past events, or when she doesn’t have adequate for a full set. Last year, she sole all she brought to the event, and had to go back to her shop to get some-more equipment to sell.
She also offers recommendation to impending brides and grooms: “Whether they used my services or not, they’ll be better prepared.” A bride competence have a Pinterest house filled with coral peonies, but if her marriage is in September, those flowers substantially aren’t realistic.
The sale is sponsored by internal marriage professionals like Bills, who are on palm to offer free one-on-one recommendation or workshops on the big day do’s and don’ts. After all, it can take some veteran help to conduct expectations and stay within budget.
After we Do isn’t the only real-world, after-wedding sale. There’s also Fancy Flip, and dozens of charities that will happily take your kindly used marriage items, including Brides Across America and Brides for a Cause. All those (family-friendly) marriage favors competence be enjoyed by internal churches or summer stay arts-and-crafts programs, and assisted vital comforts competence just take your leftover flowers and décor to lighten up their residents’ day. A food cupboard competence take your leftover food.
In other words, after your wedding, there are copiousness of ways to replenish some money, or make certain what you’ve purchased continues to bring fun into other peoples’ lives.